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Featured Couple - January 2010: Kirsty & Catherine

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Cape Town has many amazing lesbian couples, and each month we take a closer look into the life one one such couple. A special thanks to Kirsty and Catherine for sharing their story with us this month.

Catherine:

We met three years ago in high school and a week later we were known as “those lesbians” at school. Even though some meant it as a derogatory statement, every time I was called a “dyke”, I felt proud, because I was dating one of the prettiest girls in the school.

This was a rather rocky start to our relationship, given that we were young, Kirsty wasn't out and I was just leaving school. We went through it all together, coming out to the family, telling our friends, leaving school, starting varsity and moving out of the house. Kirsty has always been by my side quietly supporting me in all my endeavors. I appreciate that she makes an effort to do the things I like best, whether it be watching The Simpsons with me, doing Cycle Tours with me or attending every event my society (Rainbow UCT) organises. She is the kindest, funniest and most intense person I have ever met. I knew she was special when she so readily gave up her reputation as a traditional young woman to be with me. Having come out a year earlier than her, I knew how hard that was to do that.

I love Kirsty more than I can say. I don't think I can put into words how much I care about her, want to be around her and am in love with her. I love you Noonbug, you're a beautiful person.

Kirsty:

Catherine walked up to me one day after school and started cracking really lame jokes to get my attention. She was a few years older than me and I knew her as the only “out” girl at school. I smiled and blushed, surprised that my crush was finally paying attention to me. A week later she plucked up the courage to ask me out and we became an item. Being known as a “goodie-two-shoes” ballerina and then coming out as a lesbian proved to be the toughest experience I've had to endure. However I can honestly say that the experience has made my bond with Cat unbelievably strong. We do so many things together; we hike together, cycle together, read together, and in so doing, grow together. Often we are told that we are too young to be in love but I have never doubted our relationship, and after almost three years together I am even more certain of our love. Catherine is not only my girlfriend, she is indeed my best friend. She cheers me up, she comforts me when I cry, she holds me when I need to be held, she makes me laugh and most importantly she listens to me. I love you Catherine Saint Jude Pretorius, you're my angel.

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Ilse Theron (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-07 17:47:49

u guys really are the most adorable couple around!!! i know that first and. U deserve to be Mrs. and Mrs January!!! I read this and its so adorable man! aw
I LOVE YOU GUYS
Storme Viljoen (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-07 18:25:12

Yay! I'm so excited for you two... my favourite people ever!!!
I love this segment!
Katka (82.35.32.xxx) 2010-01-07 19:21:23

Another lovely couple to inspire the relationship-challenged like me
Greatest Ever :)
Gavin (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-07 19:21:27

Such amazing people indeed! I can't think of a better couple, nor better people around! Love you so much! Well deserved! *repeat for every month*
YOU ARE AMAZING
Melanie (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-07 20:23:27

What a beautiful story.
You inspire me...

Vivienne (196.213.72.xxx) 2010-01-08 09:02:34

Hey girls, good going on sticking together through the hard times!
It sometimes seems easier to just call it quits when the odds seem stacked against you, but in the end it is so worth staying put, if you really love each other.
Good luck for a long and happy future together!
So proud!
Dylan-JAck (137.158.152.xxx) 2010-01-08 12:26:47

Well done girls! Represent RainbowUCT
:-)
Lara (41.208.25.xxx) 2010-01-08 14:54:02

Girls, you gave me goosebumps! You really are an amazing and beautiful couple. Keep it up.
Anonymous (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-08 19:09:26

A huge congratulations to you guys. You are utterly amazing together, and we wish you the greatest for the future
Carline (196.208.202.xxx) 2010-01-08 22:16:59

Aww you guys are so cute! Love the beautiful pictures. Good luck with your future together.
Always love one another
Rudene & Anna-Marie (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-11 08:58:52

You are a stunning couple! Girls you must always love one another. We can see that you make the most amazing perfect pair!

Loving Regards:
Rudene & Anna-Marie
True love
natasha pretorius (41.6.218.xxx) 2010-01-11 09:47:21


natasha pretorius (41.6.218.xxx) 2010-01-11 09:48:07

YOU GUYS INSPIRE ME TO LOVE FREELY
Miss
Lisa (198.54.202.xxx) 2010-01-11 21:46:23

ADORABLE LADIES... XXXXXXX
Beautiful!
Julia (74.72.231.xxx) 2010-01-14 17:20:51

Wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing who you are in the world. I love it!
Melanie (196.210.250.xxx) 2010-01-14 18:45:13

Divine! Well done ladies. Stories like this really inspire me and give me hope I wish you so much light, love and happiness for your future together.
yu make me strong
nomfundiso Joseph (41.177.39.xxx) 2010-01-20 14:47:07

wow thats us,,,, me and ma baby. um loving yu guys. dont forget to being the spirit in yo love nest.
:)
anonymous (165.145.74.xxx) 2010-01-28 09:29:27

i usually dont like checking the couples section out - nothing like a harsh reminder of what my own life is lacking - but im rly glad i chose this time to satisfy my curiosity. u 2 are a beautiful and amazing couple n every picture n every word conveys that. i can only hope that somehow, somewhere i can be as lucky as u grls n meet the girl of my dreams!!
Sharki
beautiful.... only thing that (41.26.252.xxx) 2010-01-31 19:29:52

ladies, beautiful......sometimes wish that sometimes i can be free and step out of my closet. ive found that person..... she's out and im kinda, but not quite - hope that one day i can share it with the world as well- stories like this make me proud -
so jealous
Aluta (137.158.152.xxx) 2010-02-26 11:18:12

you guys make me happy...sometimes people have it all!all the best guys...mwah*
too cute!
vickie (72.225.189.xxx) 2010-03-10 08:19:30

You guys are ridiculously cute! Remind me of my girlfriend and I, very similar stories =)
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